Engagement sessions are seriously so much fun. Apart from creating heirloom images that will forever preserve this exciting time in your lives, they’re a wonderful way to get to kmnow your wedding photographer on a more personal level before the Big Day! Getting married out of town and using a different wedding photographer? This is still a great oportunity to learn that a professional camera isn’t so scary afterall to help enhance your confidence and overall enjoyment on your wedding day!
Once you have your location nailed down, there’s one big question that needs to be answersed: what should we wear?! Lucky for you, that’s where this handy little guide comes into play. I’ve gathered together some tips and tricks that I’ve learned during my adventures as photographer that will help you to get the most out of our session! So with that being said, read on!
Bold? or Neutral?
Dressy or Casual
Classic or Trendy?
These choices represent the three main decisions you will have to make in regards to your outfit choices. There are no right or wrong answers! Maybe you want one outfit to be dressy and the other to be casual. Maybe you want one outfit to be very light and nuetral but you want to wear more color in the next outfit. These categories will hopefully help you determine what you’re hoping for in your engagement session. If you’re feeling stuck and can’t seem to determine what you prefer, that’s very normal! Here are some general “rules of thumb” when it comes to styling during an engagement session. Once you read through these, you may have a better understanding of what you perfer and you can start planning your outfits. These “rules of thumbs” are based off of my experience and aren’t concrete rules that can’t be broken. However, if you have questions about one of them in regards to what you want to wear, just email me and we can talk about what would be best! : Things to Avoid: 1. Colors to avoid : bright reds, neons, “hot” oranges (they reflect color onto skin and can be difficult to edit!) 2. Avoid patterns smaller than a quarter : Tiny patterns cause something called “Chromatic Abberation” in digital images. Men’s checkered shirts are fine if the “checks” are on the larger side. 3. Alternate Heaviness: If one of you is wearing very dark jeans, the other may want to wear lighter pants. If one of you is wearing a navy top, the other shouldn’t wear a dark/heavy colored top. To a certain degree, alternating the “heaviness” of your outfits can make your images look more balanced. 4. Avoid one of you being casual while the other is more dressy: This can look a bit awkward in photos. If one of you is dressed up and the other is casual, it can look a little odd in your images. 5. Other things to avoid: Tennis shoes, Graphic tees, Bold logos on shirts, Sunglasses & Baseball Hats
ROMANTIC STYLE RECIPE If you’re hoping for a more romantic style of shoot that includes “light” and “airy” colors, you can actually make outfit choices that will lend your images to turn out brighter, softer and extra photogenic! Here are some ingredients that go into creating a romantic styled shoot. It’s important to note that you do not need to choose all of these ingredients in order to have a light and airy style to your images but the more ingredients you include, the more romantic it will be: – Neutral Colors: Blushes, tans, light pinks, faint blues and light minty teals, creams, grays and whites will always result in more of a light and airy look in your images. These colors photograph softer and more romantically! – Long, Flowy Skirts/Dresses: Dresses and skirts with feminine ruffles, multiple layers of fabric and the ability to blow and move in the wind will always photograph beautifully! You would be amazed at how impactful moving fabric softens an image. – Khakis vs. Jeans: If you really want your images to be as bright as possible, consider having your groom wear lighter pants instead of dark dress pants or dark jeans.
BRIGHT & BOLD RECIPE Just like the “Romantic” recipe, you don’t have to apply all of these “ingredients to get a perfectly BRIGHT & BOLD look to your engagement session. These ingredients include: – Only one wears a pattern: If one of you has a bold pattern, it’s very important that the other doesn’t. The more bold the pattern, the more important this rule is! – Bold Backgrounds: A lot of time, if my couples are going for a bold and bright look, I will notice solid colored backgrounds to use for part of their engagement session! It’s a double win if the background coordinates with their outfits! – Only one bold color: If you really want a bold and bright look but you want to do it well and tastefully, I would suggest that only one of you have a bright and bold colored outfit and the other stay in a solid nuetral to avoid over-doing it! – Large Patterns are Preferred: If you really want to wear a pattern, my only request is that your pattern is on the larger side. Patterns that are smaller than a quarter can be difficult to photograph. This isn’t true of all patterns but it’s a good general rule to go by!
WEAR SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL LIIKE YOU!
Glamorpuss? Yas, queen! If you feel most confident in a dramatic gown and heels, by all means go for it! Just be sure to bring a pair of flip flops for walking between setting up shots! Your feel will thank you.
Jeans & T’ kinda gal? I so feel that. Feel free to pair your favorite jeans with a flattering top that makes you feel confident and ready to have a great time running around, capturing gorgeous photographs with your love (and your friendly neighborhood engagement photographer, of course ;-).
Somewhere in the middle? I definitely fall into this category. I fyou feel cutest in a sundress and strappy sandals, then I say pick out your favoritie and let’s go frolick on a beach, in a park or along the Riverwalk!
BRIGHT & BOLD RECIPE Just like the “Romantic” recipe, you don’t have to apply all of these “ingredients to get a perfectly BRIGHT & BOLD look to your engagement session. These ingredients include: – Only one wears a pattern: If one of you has a bold pattern, it’s very important that the other doesn’t. The more bold the pattern, the more important this rule is! – Bold Backgrounds: A lot of time, if my couples are going for a bold and bright look, I will notice solid colored backgrounds to use for part of their engagement session! It’s a double win if the background coordinates with their outfits! – Only one bold color: If you really want a bold and bright look but you want to do it well and tastefully, I would suggest that only one of you have a bright and bold colored outfit and the other stay in a solid nuetral to avoid over-doing it! – Large Patterns are Preferred: If you really want to wear a pattern, my only request is that your pattern is on the larger side. Patterns that are smaller than a quarter can be difficult to photograph. This isn’t true of all patterns but it’s a good general rule to go by!
Wear something that makes you feel confident!
When choosing what to wear, this is probably the most important thing to keep in mind.
While I would love to wear a sexy LBD in theory, I know that I feel most confident about my body when I’m in a pretty, breezy sundress, cute wedges and my favorite pair of earrings. If I wore a bodycon dress I know I would be too busy feeling self-conscious to just relax and enjoy the session (which is KEY for getting photographs you will love forever!).
Dress the way that makes you feel best. Again, if that’s sexy LBD, you go, girl! If you’re worried you’ll be too self conscious about your outift choice, this will impact the way that you see yourself in the final images.
And let me assure you – YOU LOOK AMAZING! F’real! And that’s exactly what I want you to see.
COORDINATE BUT DON’T MATCH!